As aspiring college students, we have career goals in mind and work hard to achieve what we want; however, a goal in mind and hard work is not enough sometimes. The path from our starting point now and our end goal—whatever it may be—will not be set in stone; instead, it will be riddled with risks, successes, failures, and plans that will determine how we choose to proceed towards our future goals. In Stony Brook University’s Dean of Arts and Science Sacha Kopp’s blog post titled “There is No Yellow Brick Road,” he emphasizes the non-linearity of many career paths, saying how it is unrealistic to expect some “Yellow Brick Road” that will bring us to our destination. I agree with Sacha, and believe that college is a great time to take risks and explore other career paths or interests.
I came to Stony Brook University as a student majoring in Biochemistry on the Pre-Med track. My passion for medicine was built off a flimsy foundation of an general interest for the sciences, an unguided desire to succeed, and a belief engrained by my parents and people around me that being a physician will lead to all good things. This foundation will soon break apart when I am faced with the reality of my career choice—the path to medical school is stressful, long, and expensive. I started doubting my commitment to medicine and wondered whether there was something else that was a better fit for me. Part of find what would be a good fit was to find what my passions are; however, I knew that in order to do so, I have to break free of the “I will be a doctor” mindset.
This was something I shared during a discussion we had in my Writing for Your Profession class, and Sacha Kopp was present during the class as a guest. Part of the discussion was focused on one’s finding one’s passions in college and thinking in linear terms. Sacha made a comment about the trap of the medical career; the path to medicine strikes most aspiring students as formulaic and a precursor to all good things in life. It is true that becoming a doctor means following a set timeline from doing well in undergraduate college to getting into medical school to landing a spot as a resident in a hospital. It is equally true that being a doctor means getting a really good salary, being a respected professional, and working to saving lives—essentially positive things. However, this is far too often a trap for students who may not necessarily like medicine, the sciences, or the lifestyle of a physician. I shared on anecdote to the class about a friend who recently changed her career from being a health science major on the pre-med track to an engineering major hoping to work in industry one day. She admitted to me that she had neglected her true passions for math and physics in order to pursue the nobler career of medicine; I brought this anecdote up in class because I played a part in her decision to changer her major and career aspirations.
I had my doubts about the medical career and spent some time soul searching and trying to figure out what I truly wanted. For a brief time in my sophomore year, I decided that I want to be a Clinical Laboratory Scientist, which was again based off a superficial understanding of the career. I chose it largely for the reason that it provided me a respite from the pressures of school and from thinking any more about possible career paths. With this temporary career choice in mind, I was able to devote my time to discovering passions; this year, I discovered the passion for teaching and interacting with people. As a General Chemistry Teaching Assistant and a Writing Center Tutor, I have lots of student interaction from which I learned how to create an effective tutoring methodology, deal with difficult and demanding students, have productive discussions and teaching moments with students, and learn the various dynamics that go into any tutoring session. I realized that I enjoy every hour that I work as a teaching assistant or tutor; instead of draining me, my tutoring positions allowed me to flourish and grow as an individual. I always felt at home at the Chemistry Learning Center and the Writing Center, and over time I knew that I knew what my passions were: science, writing, teaching, helping others, and interacting with people. Alongside the discovery phase, I have had many conversations this year that have slowly shaped my new mindset and defined my new career aspirations. Over time, I decided on the nursing career, and now aspire to be a Nurse Practitioner. In conclusion, this non-linear trajectory that I have went through before landing on a career that I truly align with is perhaps what Sacha was emphatically expressing in his blog. Perhaps, sometimes we need to take a step back to see the bigger picture and to find what we really want.
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